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Adult Sex Toys For Couples

Couples are often hesitant to use toys because of the stigma that surrounds the idea. Boyajian says that if couples engage in a conversation and go shopping with each other and create a sense of an atmosphere of intimacy and excitement.

Adult sex toys for couples can strengthen relationships, boost sexual satisfaction, and add a zing to foreplay and partnered games. However, remember that consent is always key.

1. Dual-Ended vibrators

If you're in search of an intense, rumbling vibration or a soft and subtle one for internal enjoyment, dual-ended sounds are the best of both worlds. They are textured for internal stimulation and can be easily moved around areas of erogenous stimulation. They can also be used for penetration. This dual-button vibrator has 10 different patterns and speeds of vibration and is constructed with body-safe silicone. It's submersible and is used in the bath, on the beach or even while showering.

This sexy wand features an elongated flexi neck with a round head that can stretch to fit your partner’s curves. It can also go deep into the clitoris region for an intense orgasm. The slim, long oval tip is designed to allow for anal or prostate stimulation and offers approximately 4 inches of length that can be inserted. The textured surface is enjoyable to touch and has the ability to deliver powerful and rumbling vibrations.

The sleek, subtle design of this toy will have you admiring. It is small and compact, so it's easy to put in your pocket or on road journeys. The body-safe, ribbed silicon is soft and a pleasure to hold. The rumble is loud enough to make your heart race but not so loud as to disturb your companion.

This dildo is different from other sex toys, doesn't feel too cute. It comes in black, teal purple, pink and gray (although some testers prefer the gray because it didn't look like a pornstar from the 1990s). The flexible, rounded neck head is adorned with an elongated tail that can be used to stimulate clitoral tissue and is suitable for vaginal and anal play. The silicone is silky-smooth and phthalate-free, making it body-safe. It's combined with a solid-glass core for a sensational combination when it's piercing.

This rechargeable wand is a mighty source of vibrations, offering up to 2 hours of playtime and featuring 10 unique vibration settings. It's made of body-safe silicone and ABS plastic and is USB rechargeable and waterproof. It's a bit shorter than the other choices on this list, but has a firm, solid body that's not terribly flexible (which is perfect for clitoral or anal stimulation). It also has an internal battery, so you don't need to worry about running out of power mid-session.

2. Harnesses

Couples who enjoy exploration in the bedroom may want to think about using a harness play, anal stimulation, or even sexual stimulation. The harnesses are equipped with dildos, vibrators and hooks to secure them to the clitoris, vagina or nipples. Some have a sexy design that includes silky, skin-friendly materials while others are more basic, with a nylon or elastic waistband that can be worn over the butt and on the back to provide additional support.

Harnesses can be particularly efficient for couples who love pegging (the method of slipping a dildo down the vagina to enhance the sex's intimacy and pleasure) or any other type of consensual power exchange. The Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Kit is a good place to start for beginners. It comes with an adjustable harness, two dildos in different sizes, and a bullet vibration to be slipped behind the dildo.

The Luvli Ditto 2 wearable vibrator toy for couples has a direct clit, g-spot and tongue stimulator. Other options include blindfolds and handcuffs for kinky sexual fun or paddles to stimulate the nipple or anal area.

Some couples who experiment with adult toys for him and her toys for sex feel uneasy or a bit competitive as they fear that their partner will be jealous. To avoid this, Ashford suggests communicating openly and asking your partner if they're happy with you experimenting with sex toys or accessories that could enhance their pleasure. In the meantime, you should focus on the pleasure the accessories or toys can bring to your relationship rather than making it a game or trying to outdo one another. Always go for a water-based product with any sexy toy accessory. Also, ensure that you are both comfortable with the sensation.

3. Strokers

Strokers may appear to be a one-off toy for a single masturbation session, but these vibrating toys are perfect for couples toys looking to take their oral play or clitoral stimulation to by a few notches. We love the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker for its ridges, numerous vibration patterns and sexy shape that can be manipulated using both hands (think foreplaying with the back of your head) or placed between a cock to step up penetrative play. Strokers are also good for stimulating clitorises, nipples and frenulums.

Besides strokers, we're loving the zero flip hole toy from Fleshlight. It opens up like a book for simple inserting and has a rippled interior for sensations that take you and your loved one on a wild ride. You can also opt for a dildo designed for couple's play, like the Lovehoney Double-Ended Strap-On Dildo. It's body-safe and has two modes of vibration and creates an intimate bond during play, where both partners feel satisfaction.

Other sex toys that are great additions to the bedroom include the Lovehoney double-ended vibrator, which targets both G-spot and clit to bring pleasure to a whole new level ($70). Ring-shaped stimulators are also very popular with different levels of intensity and vibrating. Orgasma massagers made by We-Vibe are also very popular as they're ideal for clitoral and nipple arousal with your lover.

If you're worried about sex toys containing unsafe materials, Ashford recommends choosing rechargeable vibrators instead of battery-powered ones and making sure that toys are made of high-quality and non-porous materials that are safe and hygienic to clean and sterilize. Communication is key before making the transition to toys in the bedroom.

No matter how wild or gentle your romps in the bedroom tend to be, top-tier toys for couples can make a significant differences in your sexual experiences and offer new ways to enjoy each other. Keep the lines of communication open and make use of lubricant to enhance your relationship. A cup of good tea is an essential part of your daily routine.

4. Thongs

Thongs are a great option for anyone looking to make their intimate moments more exciting. There are a variety of options available whether you're looking for a sexy cotton thong or a lacy thong. Thongs are also a good choice for swimwear, as they're typically made of materials that dry quickly.

Thongs are available in different styles, including traditional thongs, C-strings, and G-strings which have string rears. They're also available in a variety of materials, ranging from silk to cotton to microfiber and more. They can also be designed to enhance the appearance of your package, either through a design intended to be used for this purpose, or simply by being stretchy and offering support. There are also some novelty designs that fit the genitals, for instance in the form of shapes.